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Miles for Monika

Monday, March 16, 2009


I "met" Monika on a wedding planning board several years ago. We were virtual friends and I was always impressed with her cooking skills (not to mention her amazing looking cupcakes! I swear I could smell 'em through the screen!) and athleticism. Anyway, over the next two weeks, I'll be logging some Miles for Monika. I'm certain I can convince Don to log his as well.

If you'd like to participate as well, click the link and follow the directions. They are trying to log 181 in two weeks! Go get 'em!

Food Stuff

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Saturday Night Italian
Simple Caprese Salad

Store bought mozzarella and 1/2 beefsteak tomato with sprinkled basil on top (we didn't have fresh basil). (less than $4)
Whole Wheat Spaghetti with Sausage and Fresh Veggies
1 whole zucchini
1 whole squash
1 Italian sausage (minus the casing)
a bit of tomato paste (i like this brand)
whole wheat pasta
1/2 onion
2 cloves garlic
1/2 bottle mushroom marinara (we use Barilla brand)
(less than $7 total)

Brown the sausage. In a separate pan cook onions and garlic. Add to the sausage. Next add veggies. Squeeze in a bit of the tomato paste and stir generously. I added 1/2 bottle of pasta sauce, covered and let simmer for 10 - 15 minutes while the pasta cooked.

Mari LOVED the meal, but wasn't a big fan of the sausage.

Sunday Night Grill Out
BBQ Baby Back Ribs with Grilled Shrimp atop Sauteed Mushrooms and an Asiago French Bread

Baby Back Ribs were a lot easier to make than I figured. Let me know if you want to know how to make it and I'll tell you. Easier to explain than write. This was also my first time making scallops, but they were so YUMMY that I didn't grab a photo b/c they were immediately gobbled up before I could snap one.



DELISH!

Layout Change

Thursday, March 12, 2009

The other one was a bit too dark for my tastes, so I've changed yet again. I love the photo in the banner and it was taken by my vf Ed over at Quality Peoples. His work is AMAZING!! Yeah, with this new layout, I'm embarrassed by all of the dark and red photos. Blech! Someone needs a flash and/or lighting lessons pronto!

Anyway, if you have a photo you would like for me to feature on here, I will gladly add it as a gadget. Just pop a link on over and voila!

I hope you all are enjoying this dark and dreary day (well, at least that's the way it is over here).

Cupcakes, Mooyah, and Mari

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

This is what I made last night while it rained. I wanted something happy and I wanted to share the happies. Yellow cake with chocolate fudge frosting. YUM! Jenna, one of these has your name on it if you want it!
This was our dinner last night. Pork tenderloin with sauteed mushrooms, steamed carrots, and sweet potato fries. That pork was FABULOUS!!

This past weekend, to welcome me home, we ventured out to Mooyah. Ahhh...I finally grabbed a photo of it. Julie, did you like it?? Please tell me you did!
And you need some Marisabelle cuteness, right? Don'tya love her little ponytail on her head? I can't believe her hair is that long. BTW, she got this onesie as a birthday gift and I love it!! It is a rich navy blue color with a bright green and red design on the front.
Here she is after bath time. This is how I get her ponytail to stay put. I pull it back while it is still wet. So far she leaves it alone and doesn't yank on it. Next week I'll try doing the pig tails, but her hair is getting so long that she needs it pulled back. Oh, and don't you LOVE the monkey jammies? They say, "I'm not tired." on the front. ha ha ha!! It's so true some nights!
Now you have your photo fix for a bit. Time for bed. Good night!

Quitting the Board on the HOA

Every few months or so, I assess my life and everything surrounding it. Things that aren't encouraging me or helping me to grow, I make the decision to cut out. Today, I'm trimming some fat.

Last year, I volunteered to be on the board of our HOA.

Initially, it was fun and thrilling. I enjoyed being a part of the organization, but I didn't see where 1.) I was adding value to the organization AND/OR
2.) it was adding value to my life.

I decided to stay on to maintain the website, but after a year of service, I think my time in the realm of HOA board member is coming to a close. Lesson learned: Don't immediately jump up and speak without first understanding how your question will impact the next year of your life.

13 Month Cuteness

Saturday, March 7, 2009

My favorite month!!

  • One of the many things you love doing is crawling into your brother's cage to hang out with him. Luckily, he tolerates it and loves you for throwing your food
You love feeding yourself and exploring new foods. You're not a fan of pork or shrimp, but you like scallops and chicken! Mac and cheese is one of your favorites.
You now have 6 teeth and lots of hair. You give high five frequently. You love clapping. You're a smiling maniac and your little laugh is infectious! You're starting to resemble me more and more and I love it!! You say Xie Xie for thank you, sign for more, Bapo is Guapo, Dada is daddy, papa is food. You're so very independent and there are signs that you'll be a spirited child. As if I expected anything else.
And every day we have to remind ourselves that you're still growing and learning and have a long way to go! We love the art you make us every month! Love you sugar bean!

NYC: Leon & Isle of Capri

Friday, March 6, 2009

Thursday was the last evening I’d be in NY. I’d seen the sights, well, as many as I was up to seeing. A trip to Broadway sounded great, but I knew that would make me miss my beloved even more. With a passing glance at myself before I left the office, I thought it best if I went to get my hair professionally washed and blown out before the training session with NOLA. What a perfect opportunity to go back to that little salon!


I showed up and they were able to squeeze me in. I was totally and completely prepared for a simple wash and dry, but Leon convinced me that my hair was too yellow and the rest of my color wasn’t fitting. Keri, my stylist in Dallas, warned me that I would need to do more maintenance when she first applied the new color, and since I didn’t heed her advice before I left Dallas, there I sat while Leon confirmed my worst nightmare: dull yellow lifeless hair. I'd been walking around with dark roots exposed and the ends looking dried up and withered, even though they weren't. (That man in the back was cracking me up! He was older and spoke 4 different languages, fluently.)

He promised me that he would add more life to it and he certainly delivered. He added a rich toner and an overall color that made my hair pop! Don't you love the mirror?


Unfortunately, the little money that I was going to be able to spend from what remained on the tax refund was spent on this one night of luxurious indulgence. The salon was decked out in all sorts of worldly bits, matching the myriad of cultures represented. I’d overheard the workers saying that 8 different languages were spoken on a daily basis: Arabic, Hebrew, Spanish, Russian, French, Japanese, Italian, and of course, English, the one that united them all. The music selection was just as colorful as the people, which, in themselves were quite amazing. They flitted around the salon in their stylish black outfits, but their personalities emanated from their very fibers. When Leon asked Caroline (who gives a phenomenal shampoo!) to help with color, another gal popped on over after they were complete to wipe away any stray drops from the mixture that lingered on my face. She had such kind eyes and a gentle touch, I swore I was getting a facial instead of being wiped with a simple terry cloth. After my initial shock wore off (because let’s face it, I was still in shock when he did the big reveal!), I did think that it was money well spent. I felt beautiful and magical and for the first time in nearly two weeks, I, Mommy Bianca, was turning heads when I walked down the street. I felt like a beautiful New York woman. I knew my confidence would come when the time was right. After all, it isn’t every day that you get to teach a billionaire something new. Heck, it isn’t every day you get to teach someone something new (unless you’re a teacher), so this would be a treat.


When I left the salon, my stylish coif blew in the wind, and the Isle of Capri at 61st and 3rd Ave. was calling my name. I’d walked near this spot several times, Don and I even passing it by a few times on our earlier visit in November. I figured now was as good a time as ever and I was in the mood for something beefy and hearty. They sat me in a prominent spot in the center of the place, table for two. Amidst all of the typical conversations, the background was filled with rock ballads from the 80s, made famous from bands like Journey and REO Speedwagon. So atypically camp w/o trying to be and I ate it up! Like with all of my meals, I pretended Don was across from me, even setting my cell phone over there with his picture smiling back at me until the backlight of the phone would fade. I ordered a glass of house red and the ossobuca. My waiter, pleasantly returned with an overflowing glass, more generous a pour than I’d ever seen while dining out. If I didn’t know any better, I would swear it was cousin Simon’s doing. It was 8:30 and their business was slowing down a bit. Across from me sat a trio, who were gone by the time I’d nibbled my 2nd piece of fresh wheat bread. The older woman, sporting the Birkin bag, as they draped a large fur coat onto her small frame.








I’d just settled into my seat when the meal arrived. Immediately, they swiped the white daisies from the adjacent table and put them onto mine. It was just the right touch, because my small table was now perfect sized for just me. I didn’t feel lonesome. I felt like I was where I was supposed to be at that very moment and I knew I was about to experience something very, very special.


The meat, so tender, crumbled with the slightest touch from my fork. I put it in my mouth and an eruption flood of flavor enraptured my senses. I sipped a bit of wine and an even bigger boom exploded in my mouth. I wanted to cry. I wanted to travel back in time a few minutes, and reach across the restaurant and slap that old woman just for the sake of doing it because yes folks, this was that good. (And I knew full well she’d slap me back, because I gathered they were frequent diners of this jewel on 3rd avenue, and she knew the goodness that came from that incredible kitchen!) Hands down, this was one of the best meals of my life and this isn’t hyperbole, but truth. I can honestly say that I’ve had the privilege of eating some fine, very fine, meals (my BFF’s husband is a chef, Primo Simon is a chef, and I like delicious food). The marrow from the shank was to die for! No, I didn’t suck it out. I used the tiny fork they provided, but I can say that I was scraping the insides, like people do when they are eating crab legs. I ate a little of the pasta, which was fresh made as well, and the sauce! All of the flavors married together wonderfully, I swore this was a signature Simon dish!


Oh…a delicious tomato sauce that was simple, but I knew it was very complex. I must say that the fresh mushrooms were chopped with sheer precision and perfectly sautéed because they didn’t taste overly oily! I saved a large bit of the pasta and bread. This meal was far too perfect for just my belly. Someone at the church HAD to share in this goodness because my soul was flooded with this love, and I knew they’d appreciate it too!

After the meal was taken away to be packaged up neatly, two workers busted out the straight edge to swipe away any lingering crumbs. What incredible service! Again, my server appeared, enticing me with another glass of wine. Sure, I nodded, it was my last night, right? Again, he showed up with another glass of overflowing wine, filled even more than the initial glass, if such a thing was even possible! He’d also brought a small plate of homemade biscotti, which I happily nibbled on, passing the time.


After munching the first, he made his presence with a small aperitif glass. In a thick Italian accent, he offered me Limoncello or Grappa. I asked the price and he said it was on the house. I relented, but only agreeing to it if he took a drink with me.


He agreed as he took my hand to shake on our deal. He seemed intrigued by my gesture, and scurried away quickly, to only reappear with another small glass for himself. He poured the libations and we happily, verbally toasted. I took a sip and it was powerful. I breathed through the fire, grabbed my glass of wine, and downed any remaining bits. When he showed again, he gestured to my glass, quizzing me with his eyes because I’d not touched it any more. I teased back, that his own glass hadn’t moved. I chided him a bit, taunting him that no one was around and to just do it. This time, we raised and clinked glasses and shot the drink. Mine had bits of tart fruit that I couldn’t stomach swallowing. I chuckled, shook my head, held up my hand saying “escuze” and spit the bits of fruit in my napkin with as much grace and delicacy as could be expected. We both let out a rip-roaring belly laugh. I thanked him kindly and he asked if I wanted another. There was a small part of me that wanted to agree, but I just shook my head no, remembering that I needed to be on point for NOLA. He frowned and asked if I was tired. I explained to him, that I wasn’t and even though it was my final night in NYC, I had to get back because I had a very important meeting. Plus, I needed to get back to the room to chat with my beloved. He reluctantly brought the bill and I was pleasantly surprised that he only charged me for 1 glass of wine and my meal. I thanked him over and over again, and tipped the full amount if he would’ve charged me for the 2nd glass of wine. Gotta love that Italian hospitality! My heartstrings tugged at the thought of re-visiting beautiful Italy.



I thanked him over and over again because little did he know that I needed that small ego boost. It felt amazing to feel that beautiful again! I beamed when I walked back to the church, and smiled even more after I left the warm package atop the talking cardboard box in the blistering cold.

I made it to the room, and happily sang as I packed my things. After I spoke to my beloved, I settled in, and for the first time, I immediately drifted off to sleep, with a slight bit of melancholy at the thought of leaving my 2-week home away from home. Bittersweet, of course.

The perfect end to a great stay and I’m so grateful for the opportunity, but there’s no place like home.

NYC: Persephone

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Being that I was in the city for another few nights, I set off to replenish my wardrobe. I was happy that I brought an extra outfit, but nothing I’d brought seemed fitting for my final training session. I picked up a few things, and walked back to my hotel. I nearly at at a Chinese Noodle shop, when another gem caught my eye. Persephone, the goddess of fertility, I opted to go in.

Initially, I was unsure simply because they had no visible menu posted to the outside. I invited myself in, and I certainly was a sight in my up-to-the knee rainboots, zebra printed fleece liners, rain-trench, and shopping sacks. I looked like a certifiable bag lady.

It was no wonder that the hostess greeted me with a surprised look. The gentleman sitting next to her seemed unamused, with an unabashedly blank look to his face. A looming uncomfortable pause, prompted me to clear my throat and politely, yet meekly, ask them if they were in fact a restaurant. There were tables around me, and a few of the people we eating, but for all I knew, I could’ve been an exclusive club. She nodded her head. “So, can I be seated??” Another nod, and there she remained firmly planted. I gather my “WTF” look prompted her to move, so I just told her that I wanted to place an order to-go. I just didn’t want to deal with the OMG-poor-gal-is-sitting-alone-and-I-wonder-why look. I tugged the menu from her clutch, and plopped at the bar. I passively ordered the quail with vegetable orzo, and a quick Goose and cran cocktail. I needed to take off some kind of an edge.

After waiting for a few minutes in silent, just moments after I’d sucked the remaining bits of my unwind-juice, my meal arrived. I hurriedly paid, and set off for the room. When I got there, I peeled off the many layers, threw on my jimmies and proceeded to enjoy a succulent dinner. I was unsure what to expect, but boy was it yummy and filling.

NYC: The Four Seasons & The Reader

Wednesday, March 4, 2009


Tuesday night, the entire team was going to get together to take me out. Originally slated for Monday, the storm rearranged the initial plans. When it came to things that afternoon, well, once again plans changed. Lucky for me, Kate and Gen were still available and we decided a round of drinks was in order to celebrate the launch. We set off to an Italian place that both Gen and Kate assured me would be very relaxing, comfortable, and great for conversation. Unfortunately, when we approached it, we discovered it completely empty, save a few reminders of the proud restaurant that occupied the space. Unaware of any other options, we asked a stranger passing by who directed us to the Four Seasons. We’d heard it was a wonderful place for a happy hour and it was just that, except for the prices! Eeeek! We were all a bit taken back when the bill arrived, but it was ok. We shared a lot of laughs and as I walked back to the hotel, I opted to grab a quick meal of gnocchi to-go. and a small bottle of Coke, but was disappointed to discover that it was sweetened with HFCS and not sugar cane. Bleh!
The gnocci was delicious! Then again, I've come to expect that level of consistency from Serafina.


I rented The Reader and was thoroughly impressed! Kate Winslet is beautiful and amazing and well, I say if you haven’t seen it, you should. Be forewarned, it is very sultry and provocative.

This was the night I also learned that my time in NYC would be extended through Friday. Even though I'd packed already, I didn't have the energy to go and unpack all of my things. Instead, I just pulled out the luggage holders and balanced my open suitcases on them.

(BTW, I have to say that Hazel, who comes up at night for the evening turndown service is so sweet and nice. I loved her. Finally, she got my name right by calling me Meece Bianca instead of Meece Blanca.)

NYC: Alice’s Tea Cup and Lilli & Loo

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

This trip has been very cathartic for me. I’m aware of who I am and while I believed so much of me was lost, I realize that all of it is there, shining brighter than ever, actually. I know I’ve expressed this many times, but it is very difficult to understand what it means to become a mother. I often smile when I look at the prestigious letters following people’s signatures in emails: John Doe MSCE, JD, CPA, Dr. Jane Doe PMP, MBA. Such things don’t exist for moms, who, quite frankly, hold the title Mom. But we’re party planners, project managers, social workers, psychiatrists, mediators, negotiators, personal assistants, nurses, chefs, etc…well, you get the picture. Duh, it’s a lot of responsibility to be a parent.

I’m in awe, utter and complete awe of single parents and I’m amazed at my husband for coping so well these past couple of weeks. The most difficult thing I had to come to terms with was being a mom, but being away from my family. I missed them. But at the same time, I felt like I was letting them down. I’d never known a mother who traveled with any frequency. Not like I was going to start doing more traveling, but I can probably count on one hand the number of times my mother was away at a conference, but even then, she wasn’t away for more than a few days. My fear was that I was creating emotional scars within Marisabelle because of my absence. Was I a poor mother for willingly leaving her immediate side? I didn’t really think so. I felt honored that I was chosen to do this job. I was proud of the work I was doing. And I knew that she would be proud of me too. With that intention every day, I’d wake to face whatever came my way and I strove to do it with as much composure as I could muster. Fortunately for me, I was kept quite busy, so it was late, late at night that these longing thoughts crept into the quiet corners of my mind.

Lucky for me, they came in for a quick visit. We had an amazing time walking all around and strolling through Central Park was one of the many highlights. Just as they left, the snow began to lazily fall down. It was very beautiful and really cold. I wished them goodbye, went up to the room to clean myself up and went in to the office. Everyone was working and it would be good to see them all. We'd ordered burger from Five Guys, which started my love affair with delicious burgers wrapped in foil (similar to Mooyah!)

By Sunday evening, I was emotionally and physically exhausted, so I made-do with the gyro I’d bought on the street. I’d had 3 glasses of hot chocolate from the hotel (like a creamy, liquid pudding!). When I returned from the office, I nestled in for a fantasy marathon: Harry Potter & the Order of the Phoenix & The Lord of the Rings Trilogy (movie 3 of the trio) I must admit, I fell into a deep sleep for the better part of the LOTR movie, but awoke long enough to watch the part that I’d fallen asleep when I originally saw it in the theater. I was very happy to know it all made a lot more sense now.

Anyway, fast forward to Monday, a busy, busy day at work. Not unlike all my time here. Gen and I had made plans to eat dessert together. This was before dinner, but I didn’t care. I was desperate for some one-on-one girl-time. I missed my girlfriends. I’d pretty much been running non-stop all day and it was thrilling! She mentioned a place that was her special place, and I was too, too eager to stop by for a visit! Alice's Tea Cup, Chapter II was literally tucked away around a corner. Had we not been looking for it, I certainly would’ve missed it. We walked down a small, but slippery flight of stairs (I forgot to mention that it snowed the day before and that day!). It was a two level cottage, brightly painted with whimsical Alice in Wonderland themed photos adorning the walls, which were also filled with curvy, loopy words from fun quotes. They sold fairy wings, wands, and other sorts of thrilling items to fill the imagination. We were seated on the second floor, near the winding steps, with a table made from the remnants of an old push pedal sewing machine. I ordered the chocolate cake with buttercream icing and a peach bellini, from a pixie-like gal, who could’ve stepped off the walls for all I knew. Gen had the classic yellow cake with chocolate frosting. Off the little imp disappeared down the winding steps, reappearing moments later with our order. The chocolate cake was passable, but nothing overwhelming. The frosting however, tasted old and stale like it had been sitting for days. However, the bellini was freshly made and I was certainly happy that it wasn’t a pre-frozen libation. The most enjoyable part of the evening was the conversation amidst a dreamy backdrop. It really was like a dream. After I left, I set off to Laila Rowe to buy some much needed rain boots. I picked up a few items and on my way, when I stopped to ask for directions, I found an amazing hair salon called: Amour de Hair. It was eclectic and inviting and I made a mental note to revisit it, if the occasion should arise.

Afterwards, I headed on out to eat dinner. Lilli & Loo is an Asian fusion establishment, with beautiful décor.

Unfortunately, I was incredibly disappointed with my meal. My sushi roll was uninventive and generic. It was trying to be more, but the flavor just wasn’t there.

The Pad See Ew that I ordered could’ve been better, but the beef was overcooked and the noodles were as well. I did get it to-go, though. The fortune cookie was delicious, though. Thin, crispy, and perfectly sweet. I headed back to the hotel and stopped by the church to see if one of the homeless men who slept on the stoops in the night would be interested in a warm meal. It wasn’t much and while I may not have enjoyed the meal, I’m certain that one of them would.

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